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Can you master your reality?...

Updated: Mar 24



I admit that some people can be very challenging to me. Same as I am sure I could be very challenging to them...


But does that make us consider each other as "problems" to one another?... I personally don't think so... Especially if we learn to individually master our reality and gather the courage and the love for ourselves to take full responsibility all the time as well as take all of our powers back from where we gave it away- only then we can face them.


I'm honestly not one who wishes to run away from long term relational challenges.. If anything I am often blamed to be someone who doesn't always know when to stop trying to resolve situations and not give them enough time and space to breath before the resolve can actually properly happen for both sides, or at least for me...


Those few souls in my life that I consider myself to be in a "teaching phase" right now (in other words- in "not in super good terms with currently") - I intend to resolve any and all of these "teachings/ confrontation" with %100 of them (if not most of them) before I die, because my higher self knows that all these "situations" are merely "soul contracts", here to mirror me through their embodiments, so there really is no need to run away from "myself"...


Many Zen Masters, Buddhists Teachers, Self Improvement Gurus, Higher Consciousness Teachers, Native Wisdom Keepers and simple noble souls who learned to master themselves say that if we don't attempt to resolve our issues with our relations in this lifetime- we'll just keep incarnating to fix them next life... so .. if you already know it within your soul that you can master your reality- then why not go for it and fix it in this life?... why do we want to create more drama when we're all ultimately from the same family and the same community?


When I search within me I see that I also intend to resolve all my soul conflicts so that they can all eventually turn into a beautiful experience of awakening...


Whenever I want to be heard as a worthy being and share my authentic self as to who I really am- I am not seeking attention, or to be judged, projected on or taken for granted in any way for who I am... I really am open for the opportunity to be loved for who I am as I already am.


To be the human being that you are does not mean you are allowed to lack accountability for your actions or that you can disrespect other's boundaries in any way. Being yourself means you know you need to communicate properly so that others can understand where you're at to begin with.


Having my Heart Center in my Human Design Chart "defined"- helps me recognize the effects of my courage on others. I notice that many undefined and open heart center people tend to idolize the "heart power"as a beautiful space for connection but are often scared of opening themselves to courage. This is where Human Design can help. It shows you what you can learn about the other so that in case you don't feel the confidence to open your heart- you can at least read about them on paper so you can meet them half way. In my experience learning about my friends- help me open my heart to get to know them better, because after all- we are each designed to complete each other through our differences... and it is only our "programming" that is causing us to judge each other and take each other for-granted to begin with...


When we look at each other's charts we can see how we each have completely different "energy flow" (the connection between all the defined/ colored centers creates a person's unique energy flow). There is no right and there is no wrong so why do we often end up hurting each other? you might ask...


I believe that if everyone spoke their own truth more they will be more accepted for it and I bet that when we chose to have the difficult conversations we're so scared of- everything can very well change for the better rather instantly. I will definitely hold space for that for all my current imperfect relationships... This would be my proof to myself that I can master my reality...


This is also why I feel that for everyone to share their inner experience is so important. When we learn Human Design we understand that everyone's completely different in their complexity... Many of us are hurting and struggling to relate, and that's totally ok. We expect others to be a super men/ super woman when we ourself can't be one either...


If you learn to love all the parts of your soul (including your shadows)- that is when you truly know your soul and able to start loving it unconditionally. It is an authentic living that can lead to high levels of love, success, satisfaction, peace and awe from life.



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